The Real Deal

Show up real. Find the one who sees you.

In the noisy world of online dating, it's easy to lose yourself – or worse, to present a polished version that hides your truth. But love built on performance never lasts.

The Real Deal of Digital Dating is a raw, clear-eyed guide for anyone who's done pretending and ready to date with depth, clarity, and self-respect.

Written by a coach, couple's therapist, and funeral speaker with a sharp eye for what matters in love and in life, this book invites you to:

radically own your story – without filters or facades

write a dating profile that speaks from the soul

attract someone who wants all of you, not just the highlights

Through reflective prompts, practical tips, and a dose of gentle provocation, you'll walk away with more than a good profile – you'll have a deeper relationship with yourself.

This is not another swipe-strategy guide.

It's a call to honesty. To courage.

And to real connection in a digital world.